Kids ask the honest questions

This is what happened Saturday night when I was at Harris Beach photographing the sunset.  This was the first time I had been to Harris Beach since I got stuck in the sand.  That is a story that will be covered shortly in its own blog.  Harris Beach is perfect for sunset shots and is very easy to navigate around. The sun sets in a way so, anywhere in your shot, you can get the beach or rocks.  Plus, this is a very popular spot for people, sunsets, and silhouettes.

As I said, this was my first time back.  So, to say the least, I was gun shy.  I went to the ramp and saw this ‘shelter’ built by someone out of driftwood (the sun was perfect). 

Snapped a picture. Then, I decided to go on the grass, which is a semi bumpy hilly area that was facing the setting sun.  It wasn’t the type of sunsets that are easy to shoot, but you can get some interesting results.

I’m going to back up a little bit and mention you don’t know if you don’t go.  There were no fluffy sunset clouds, just a bank of clouds at the horizon. So my thought was it won’t be good.  I am glad Roy doesn’t listen to me sometimes. (I will deny this comment in the future. 🙂 ) I am also glad I listen to Roy sometimes.  We were just heading down to a restaurant that is about a block from the RV Park.  I was like, do I need my camera? Roy said, ‘Remember you never know what you might see.’ 

Well, I went into the trailer to get the camera on my way out of the trailer, I looked up.  So, glad I did because I saw three turkey vultures soaring overhead.  They were out of range of my camera to photograph, I just enjoyed them.  At this point and time at a little lower elevation, there appears a bald eagle.  It took my mind a minute to realize what it was.  Sometime. You just have to absorb the moment.  I thought it was amazing how the light hit the white tail feathers, then he was gone.

Back to what happened at Harris Beach. I’m snapping away, and then I see this guy/mountain goat climbing up this rocky hill to get a better viewpoint.  I decided his climb and the profile of him shooting the sunset would make some good photos. 

He saw me taking photos of him when he got down he asked if he could get a copy.  Of course I said. He gave me his number and we chatted about cameras.  I have learned, though, that when shooting a scene, talk less shoot more.  I got a few more shots once the sunset behind the bank, packed up, and got ready to load up.

I am still wanting to hit the beach, but I’m a tad shy.  I see this group of people come up, a trail that I have been curious about since last year. I can see just the top of the trail.  It is wide enough but, not sure what is out of sight. I’ve become quite bold. I see a group of people coming up that same trail. So, I ask if this chair could make it down.  I also asked what it looked like at the bottom.  I guess there is a big driftwood log near the bottom you have to work around.  There is also a dropoff that looks like steps right out of sight. Oh, well.  I will get on the beach sometime this summer.

As I’m talking to the adults, a boy who was about 6 years old  pops out this question. Why are you in a wheelchair?  I said I have Multiple Sclerosis.  The boy seemed satisfied, especially after the dad leaned over and said, ‘that’s, what Jean has.’ I have  to wonder how many adults have that same question and are afraid to ask it when they see someone in a chair.

I know that for me, it is easier to answer a child than to answer an adult. I find some adults to be a little condescending or even disapproving because I have no outward injuries.  I have noticed. When I see an adult look or show some interest, I am quick to say I have MS. It was amazing to hear the curiosity and honesty in the boy’s question.

I hope that you take away from this post that it is ok to ask why I am in a wheelchair just please ask out of wonder and honest curiosity.